I think that “conversation”, which is a means of communication with people in daily life, is indispensable. Although everyone has experienced it, I feel that many people do not know the way of thinking necessary for the original conversation. Conversations are not something that can be done alone, but because there is a partner. Are you thinking that you are having a conversation and are imposing only your own opinions, such as making the other person uncomfortable? The important thing in conversation is to be aware of the balance of “speaking 50% + listening 50%”.

・ Conversation is one of communication
Conversations are mysterious, and some people feel like “I want to talk more”, while others feel “tired” just by talking the other way around. Both of them have a partner and exchange words and have a conversation, but why is there a difference in how they feel?

It has a problem with the balance of the conversation. For example, suppose you insist on your own story without listening to the other person’s opinion. Even if the other person wants to talk, this is just one-sided listening to the claim. Conversation is also about exchanging opinions with each other, and sometimes it is necessary to listen to the opinions of the other person. However, if you only listen to the opinions of the other person, you will not be able to shape your original thoughts and feelings, and you will be considered as a passive person.

It’s harder than you think to convey your opinion without making the other person uncomfortable. The way of communicating changes depending on the relationship with the other party, and it cannot be realized unless you can organize in your mind how to convey it. Some people are not good at summarizing what they want to convey, and may regret what they said later. If you get into the habit of scrutinizing to convey your opinion, you will have the ability to explain and improve your communication skills.

・ Speaking ability is accumulated daily
In order to achieve conversation = speaking 50% + listening 50%, the key is how consciously you are talking every day. Many people who usually have a lot of opportunities to talk to people have a 50% balance with nature, and can talk comfortably to the other person. However, people who have few opportunities to interact with people and have no conversational skills tend to be one-way streets. In order to acquire the conversational ability to speak, it is necessary to have the ability to convey one’s opinion and to objectively listen to and judge the other person’s story.

·summary
It is important to be aware of 50% speaking + 50% listening in order to improve conversational skills. Sometimes I can’t communicate well and I think I regret it. We will improve the quality of conversation through accumulation and experience, so please do your best and take that step.

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